Comment · Thu, July 19, 2012
No gun, but he's loaded.
What they were answering
liz_beth · 2 points
I wasn't trying to say that they DID fake it, just that I think the studies probably show more women saying penetration isn't enough versus men that think it is--because the women fake it. Sort of a self-defeating move IMO. It's awesome that y'all have the communication to avoid that.
And geez, I'm oddly jealous of her G spot now. Lol. That sounds intense. But I guess it goes back to the whole "everyone's different" thing. Besides, it sounds like you're being a great lover and stimulating the clit anyway. Idk if the studies are skewed? Because obviously we've both seen them everywhere.... But I'd say that from my experience, anecdotes from friends, and even the internet (which obviously doesn't lie--ever) the clitoris is important in having a great orgasm (even if it's possible without)
u/MisterYouAreSoDumb
Very true, communication is key! Both men and women need to understand that not speaking your mind never fixes anything. Anyone I've ever dated knows that I would rather hear the truth, even the hard truth, rather than pandering to my feelings. A lot of the times it just comes down to being aware of your partner's reactions and feelings, then having the confidence to discuss it with them.
As far as her G-Spot is concerned, it is very pronounced. It's hard to describe, but it feels like a bump. When I hit it, she noticeably shivers, then keeps making the motion that did it until she goes nuts. It's pretty cool actually! With past girlfriends, I knew the spot I had to hit to get her to orgasm, but I never physically felt it. Everyone is different, but that makes us interesting!